Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Welcome to my world...

Doesn't feel so good does it... LOL

Yup, my ex was finally exposed to a little bit of my world and the crocodile tears were a flowin... Boo Hoo I should feel a little sorry for her, she doesn't have half the intensional fortitude or logical skills I do to withstand the onslaught. But this is all her doing, and I've suffered plenty so she's gonna have to keep looking for that sympathy, I have very little to spare.

You see my ex had chosen the easier and riskier, ignorant blissful route. And of course being the Plaintiff, a woman, and having shopped for the bitchiest lawyer in the state helped. I had too much going against me to even consider that route.

So I learned the nasty nature of the dysfunctional domestic relations system long ago. But all she did is hear bullshit platitudes from her lying bitch and sit in the court hallway like a model litigant. Meanwhile I was exposed to all the dirty nasty tricks of her hired bitch and the horse trading that my lawyers sold me out for when they were too outmatched by the hired bitch and her prestigious firm. This hardened me into the poor litigant I became, jaded, demanding, mistrustful, blunt without the expected decorum. Each threat of contempt was a self fulling prophecy and made me more contemptuous of the system.

But being forewarned is being forearmed and no one likes to be blindsided, st least yell "FORE" before the hammer hits my head. Now my ex didn't exactly get blindsided, I warned her plenty of times, all for naught, dismissed as the ramblings of an unhappy person. Well karma is a bitch and now she's an unhappy person, having been threatened with civil suit twice this week. I couldn't help myself, I blurted out, "Welcome to my world!!! I see this shit 2-3 times a week every damn week". Oh she burst into tears and hung up. I'm such a sucker for being a good guy, its not like she doesn't deserve that and a whole lot more. So I called her back and said its just intimidation, don't get upset or worry about it, they're just fuckin with you, just like they are with me. Your hired bitch will tell you, she did it to me, its nothin that doesn't happen daily, they got a long list of people they're fuckin, it will take them time.

One action against her is from a creditor, just like me. Another is a debt that was assigned to her but they went after me. When I kept them at bay they got a judgment lien, then they got a judgment for seizure of property, but they covered their bets and got it against both of us on the publicly disclosed bank with the most money - HERS!!! I told her, no big deal, just withdraw the money, problem solved. But I need to pay bills, she says. Yeah, I know that can be a bitch, oh well, there are other ways to pay most bills.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

gives a little credence to "what goes around comes around" at some point karma usually comes back to kick you in the ass!

Anonymous said...

Oh...yes it does.

Frugal, Green & Fabulous said...

Lots of great info here. Sorry you're going through all of this. And yeah..Karma is great:-)