Deadbeats go to church to turn themselves in

I saw an article that just raised my ire... I had to comment on it. The article was about allowing child support "deadbeats" to turn themselves in at a church. If you've read this blog for any length of time you will realize that the process of naming "deadbeats" is very flawed. My editorial response follows...

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How ironic that the church, historically a sanctuary for the falsely accused is being used to lure people in for prosecution. And the benefit to the person turning themselves in would be what? They won't be shot on sight, arrested in front of their children or at work? Wow what a great deal!

What a dysfunctional system! I've had judges allow raiding child support accounts twice when lawyers wanted it for their own fees, to the tune of well over $10,000 that judges ordered stolen from my child, and then label me a deadbeat because of the judges' orders, the same judge who works 3 hours a day while earning over $100,000, the same judge who will win a promotion to probate court unopposed because of his famous last name.

And you have the guts to call me a deadbeat? The domestic relations court, the judges who are in bed with the lawyers, the lawyers, the guardians, the custody evaluators who allow themselves to be intimidated against the father's parental rights, the whole damn corrupt system are the real deadbeats. They should be the ones turning themselves in for crimes against the people and against the family structure all in the name of personal greed.

The enforcement agency who can't even tell you how much you owe, who constantly finger points between county and state for their variety of screw-ups, who only take one day to trigger an automatic enforcement action, but over four months to schedule a hearing appeal and then deny you due process with all kinds of restrictions on how you can appeal their erroneous decisions is an agency that lives off the misery of the Non Custodial Parent (NCP) like a parasite, worse than any blood sucking leech.

And to the news media, is this the best you can do in your reporting? Don't you see the travesty, destruction and stink of corruption right under your noses? Are you so blind? Or do you, like the whole dysfunctional family destruction industry, just not give a damn either?

History will judge this era of family destruction very harshly, but then it will be way too late to close Pandora's box, all the destruction will have occurred marring our nation for generations. But I'm sure there is more important crap on the news or the front page, right? No, I don't think there is anything more important than the destruction of the family.

But who the hell am I, I used to be a Dad, I fought for over three years to stay one, but the court picks a winner and a loser, and I am the loser, I am the NCP. But there is one automatic loser, one that occurs in every single court decision, and that is the child, for they are no longer allowed to have two parents, only a "single" parent and a visiting NCP.

For thousands of years everyone knew it took two parents to raise a child, now in the 21st century we are destroying something that worked for millennia. So we can enrich the family court industry on the backs of the citizenry. That is not the government "of the people, by the people, and for the people" our nation was founded on over 200 years ago. The time is long overdue for a revolution to return the control of government to the people where it belongs.